Home sex secrets

Well, they can be forgiven. When you are in enduring partnerships, age and routine start to creep up on you. Or on the beach. Or in the kitchen. Humans are programmed to gravitate to new experiences.

In my mid-teens, I was severely depressed and became addicted to masturbation as a coping method. I once orgasmed 83 times in one day. I wish I was exaggerating. Literally spent the entire day in bed masturbating minus bathroom breaks. She tells me to speed up, I speed up, she tells me to edge, I edge, she tells me to put something up my ass, I put an orange highlighter up my ass and the lid comes loose in my rectum. I am a year-old woman now. I learned about my sexuality at a young age and I now know that it is very common in children to masturbate without knowing they are if they are.

Although he was no stranger to my feral freelancer habits -- living in my robe, working late into the night, not leaving the house for days on end -- I cringed at the thought of him seeing me daily in all my unkempt, agoraphobic glory. So I did what any disheveled freelancer would do: I got an office job -- one that required me to show up at approximately the same time each day, looking fresh and professional. Now that I'm back to full-time freelancing, I'm trying to prove to myself and my new husband that working from home doesn't necessarily mean living a life devoid of structure. But it's not easy. On any given day, my best-laid plans for a morning walk with the dog might be foiled by an urgent question from an editor about a story I've filed or an elusive source calling to say she's available now, and only now, for that needed quote.

Put "Have sex" on your calendar? Instead of thinking of calendar sex as unromantic, view it instead as a delicious form of foreplay. Send each other anticipatory texts, plan what you'll wear or not , and so on. This little bit of hardware is essential in a home with children, says Jennifer Flanders, who's been married 24 years and has 12 children, ranging in age from 11 months to 23 years. She jokes that whenever the family moves to a new home, a new lock on the master bedroom tops the to-do list.