First time male anal

Having sex can be a scary, nerve-racking experience. I can remember bottoming for the first time — I had absolutely no idea where to start. As a result, it was painful, embarrassing and not very fun. Below we have put together a comprehensive guide to make sure that your first time bottoming is the best that it can be! Remember, bottoming should not hurt.

We include products we think are useful for our readers. If you buy through links on this page, we may earn a small commission. A little prep work and some patience could mean the difference between pleasure and pain when it comes to backdoor fun. Without enough lubrication , the friction created by dry penetration is painful and can even cause tiny tears in the delicate skin of the anus. Those are some pretty tight quarters back there because the muscles in the anus are meant to be closed tight to keep things in.

A week ago, ago I broke just about every rule of common sense. Using a gay chat web site, I talked to a guy a complete stranger and then met him and took him back to my house. I was feeling very horny and found him to be very attractive, so we went to bed. I have never received anal intercourse before in my life, but that night I was up for trying anything.

Science is currently trying to figure out why so-called prostate orgasms feel so intense—but, frankly, the why is unimportant. So, I talked with Sex and Relationships coach Dr. Charlie Glickman, PhD, who literally wrote the book on prostate pleasure to explain just how to enjoy this under-appreciated erogenous zone.