Swinging sex

Whether they admit to it or not, most people have at some point fantasised about indulging in group sex. They gave me the lowdown on nerves, etiquette and why you need to plan in advance. Sarah, single: My ex had the fantasy and I found it hot. It was something we talked about throughout the relationship. But I had loads of people approach me. It was a very gradual process over a number of years, with much discussion about boundaries and limits.

But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realize. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like. Remember that before you take the plunge on some new sexual activity, you and your partner want to talk things out and make sure you both feel emotionally and physically safe to move forward! My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club.

By Tracey Cox for MailOnline. The most popular and biggest free website, Fab Swingers, claims , people use the site daily to find other swingers to connect with. Why so popular? Which is why nearly all swingers these days meet at clubs or through websites.

When I first floated the idea of an open relationship to the man who is now my husband, I had no idea what to call it. My proposal—to go outside our relationship without actually giving up on what we had—appealed to him. With both of us on board, we soon realized that—lol—we actually had no idea what we were doing. We knew we wanted to experiment sexually with others, but no one had ever admitted to me that they were non-monogamous a term I only learned many years later , so we had no choice but to stumble ahead without any labels or mentorship.